Contract
We hope
this gives you an idea of the intentions
behind the implementation of a contract unto
your D/s relationship.
This one was modified by AkAngel from "Screw the Roses" for use in his real life relationship with SassySal whom gave up all ties as a lifestyle
Domme/Dominatrix to serve him alone on 12/11/98 .
I Sassy , with an open mind and heart do request of AkAngel
that he accept the submission of my will unto his and to take me into his care and guidance, that we may grow together in love, trust and mutual
respect.
The satisfaction of his wants, desires and whims are consistent with my desire as a submissive to be found pleasing to him. To that end, I offer him the use of my time, talents and abilities.
Furthermore, I ask that, as my Master, he accept the keeping of my body for the fulfillment of our sexual, spiritual, emotional and
intellectual needs.
I ask that he guide me in any sexual, spiritual, emotion or intellectual
behavior/endeavors both together with, and separate from him, in such a way as to further my growth as a person.
I ask Angel, as my Master, to use the power vested in his role to use
said power to mold and shape me, assisting me to grow in strength, character, confidence and being and that he continue to help me develop my artistic,
emotional and intellectual abilities.
In return, I agree:
1)To obey his commands to the best of my ability.
2)To strive to overcome feelings of shame and guilt, and all inhibitions that
interfere with my capacity to serve him, and limit my growth as his submissive.
3)To maintain honest and open communication.
4)To reveal my thoughts, feelings and desires without hesitation or embarrassment.
5)To inform him of wants and perceived needs, recognizing that he is the sole judge to how these shall be satisfied.
6)To strive toward maintenance of a positive self image and development of realistic expectations and goals.
7)To work with him to become a happy and self-fulfilled individual.
8)To work against negative aspects of my ego and insecurities that would interfere
with the realizations of these ideals and goals.
My surrender as a submissive is done with the knowledge that nothing
asked of me will demean me as a person and will, in no way, diminish my own
responsibilities toward making the utmost use of my potential.
In recognition of my family obligations, nothing will be required of me that will, in any way damage or harm my children, nor intefer with my duties as a
mother. I agree, out of my trust for him, to be willing to try new things when our parenting beliefs would lead us in different directions.
This I, Sassy, do entreat, with lucidity and the realizations of what
this means, both stated and implied, in the conviction that this offer be
understood in the spirit of faith, caring, esteem and devotion in which it is given.
Should either of us find that our aspirations are not being well served by this agreement, find this commitment too burdensome or otherwise wish to cancel, either may do so by verbal notification to the other in keeping with the consensual nature of this contract.
We both understand that a cancellation of this agreement means a cessation of
the control stated and implied within and not a termination of our relationship as friends and lovers. Upon cancellation each of us agrees to offer the other his or her reasons and to assess our new needs and situation openly and lovingly.
This agreement shall serve as the basis of our relationship committed
to in the spirit of loving and consensual Dominance and submission with the intention of furthering self-awareness and exploration, promoting health and
happiness and improving the quality of life for us and our children.
Signed 12/11/98
SassySal
AkAngel
Our real names have
been replaced with nicks to retain our personal privacy.
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